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ALL parts of communication are skills that can be learned. Fighting is part of that. Effective communication during a fight is tough though.
Most people are familiar with what an unfair fight looks like…The Blame Game, Silent Treatment, Inappropriate Timing, Threats, Witholding of Affection or Sex. I’m sure that you can name some more.
You hear it all of the time – You need to attack the problem…not the person. How is withholding sex attacking the problem? It’s not. It is however a reaction to being hurt, the need to hurt back.
Relationships and Money are the perfect breeding ground for conflict.
Fear and change can often lead to conflict, in any situation. People have very strong emotions about money. It is the emotions and values people attach to money that cause the conflict.
Do you fight about money or ignore money problems?
Money concerns such as not having enough, not making enough, not saving enough, spending too much are common sources of conflict in relationships. Most people fight about money; that is no surprise.
During a lifetime there are many stages that money conflict can occur in relationships.